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Old Jul 13, 2020, 09:53 AM
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Well, we already left and spent the first night so we are here far away together. She started to get crazy on me again in the car. I just kept my composure. I wasn't going to let her get me upset. She finally ran out of steam. This is the first time in a long time we are alone no kids for more than a day. Now she is calm and lovey dovey. Nothing really got accomplished but at least she is mellow for now. Ugh.

Thank you guys for listening! I don't think I would make it without your help and suggestions. We'll see where the day goes. Maybe I get to tell her the car ride was unacceptable.
I would definitely tell her at some point that her behavior in the car is unacceptable. Draw a line with her.

I disagree with just letting it go... she has been ranting and raving at you, is hitting objects and clearly is out of control with her anger. Something needs to be done here. Limits must be set if you two are going to survive.
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