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Old Jul 13, 2020, 03:37 PM
Bill3 Bill3 is offline
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Bless you for posting.

Something that many years later is causing the significant problems you describe should be treated by a professional and not by a partner. That is the goal for now in my opinion. She can benefit from professional help.

Therefore I like travelinglady's idea of you seeing a counselor yourself, so as to find out how best to speak with her and encourage her to find a counselor, to deal with your own feelings about the situation, and to set an example for her.
Hugs from:
Travelinglady