Apologies that this is likely to be ramble and full of waffle, but it’s probably a good reflection of my brain right now!

But the big question, how do you know what your sexuality is?

Because I am so confused.

I have always thought I was straight; I've had relationships with men, slept with men etc. But since I got out of a toxic relationship a few years ago I’ve just found myself stuck in a weird place. I’ve continued to date men, but it never works out for one reason or another.

I don’t seem to fancy anyone any more. With sex, although when I’m horny I think about men, when actually having sex I quickly get bored and rarely feel satisfied (although it really has been a while at this point!).

When out, I notice women more than men. But this is often in an envious way; ‘wow they look so good, I wish I looked like that’ sort of thing.

I have no experience with women so I can’t compare or rule in/out, but more recently I’m questioning whether maybe the reason things don’t work and I don’t fancy anyone is because maybe I like women? Or whether this is a weird place for my head to go and I’m wrong in even questioning it?

I’ve worded this very badly and probably not included enough detail, but I’d appreciate any advice that you’ve got

🙏🏼

-confused