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Originally Posted by divine1966
50/50 model is pretty much the one that most people and most courts go for. Eventually you won’t breastfeed and co sleep. I agree not having your kids full time is not ideal at all. But it’s also not ideal for kids to witness bad relationships or abuse between parents.
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That's another reason why I wouldn't be able to leave right now. I'm still cosleeping and breastfeeding during the nights. Having 50/50 would change that. My 3yr old would adjust ok, if she were to bedshare with dad. I'm not at all supportive of that because of the boundary issues and because he uses medicinal cannabis to help him sleep throughout the nights. Although he's taking below his "daily" limit, he's taking a lot more at night than I realized.. and to have a little girl sleep beside him? Even if he said he wouldn't, he's a compulsive liar.
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Him simply saying he is a better parent won’t cut it. It doesn’t work that way.
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He didn't say he's a better parent. He's suggesting I've been aggressive with her out of anger. It's bs.