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Originally Posted by Have Hope
I am giving him the benefit of the doubt right now. I am personally not addicted to the cycle of abuse, so I really hope that's not what you meant, Divine. That is NOT me.
I am ready to leave at any time.
We just had another serious conversation about all this. He is serious. We shall see.
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He might be addicted to it though because he seemed to be always very romantic after fights. Not saying he can’t break the pattern after he became aware of his behaviors and hopefully working on it in therapy. He just seems to gravitate towards these extreme high and lows in a relationship and he switches between them unusually quickly (like he’d yell in the morning but have good times and be romantic few hours later- don’t mean sexual) but hopefully he can continue working on it and stop the cycle of ups and downs