<font color="blue">Always remember that certain circumstances are not ours to alter.
We can only be examples, not controllers of other people's lives,
other people's children, other people's circumstances.

Some would have us believe we contribute to harsh events by doing nothing.
Some of the deepest caring and doing, some of the best work,
is not physically evident in the beginning.

Help of any kind must be wanted, and recognized before it can do any good.
Too much help where it is not appreciated can make even a good person helpless.

We must be wise in our giving.
We must be particularly wise in what we withhold.