Hi Freewill Actually I think your best friend & T put themselves in A place not "you in YOUR place".IMHO their react-ions & opinions are more about them than about you. I agree with Perna, not to take their comments & lack of support personally (although that can be extrememly hard to do!!) I don't see it as the T putting you in your place. Can you see it from other perspectives? Once again IMHO, I would put this T in his place.