Hello,

If a person is struggling with social gatherings & trusting people, it's okay to pull back a bit on how much you put yourself in those situations you're not comfortable with, otherwise it can be very punishing both mentally and emotionally. Just small amounts at first, and then maybe build up gradually with what you feel you're comfortable with. And have a few boundaries around people with whom you feel you don't connect - that's okay. Just a few self management things.