Yes I was irritable with the heat, it'll be back today but at least I got some things done without sweating profusely..

THe relationship wasn't good for me anyway. I know I loved him so it's painful, but I'm going to be o.k. eventually.

He left in a hurry and figured I'd be fine to look after his cat, although he had said a few weeks before abruptly leaving "i'm going to get it spayed for sure" and he wasn't able to sleep with the noise either...... so I'm feeling like he was a coward for not being honest, saying he'd be back in a month, ending things from far away and moving was never talked about.

I did talk to him, he said he'll pick up the cat whenever he can, could be a few months... I do consider that abandonment if he had no plans for someone to care of it and left it up to me without my ok for what would be much longer that I was told.... feels good to write it out and that someone asked about it, thank you T4bby Cat. Hugs to you.