I asked her today what she prefers. I figured I was being pretty selfish by having meltdowns every time she once again said there was no for sure date when she’d be back. And if I don’t want to go to work and neither do teachers what makes me think she does either? And she did tell me that she honestly doesn’t want to go back. I’m not sure if she’s choosing not to go back right now. She answered my questions but then nicely said “but don’t get concerned about it.” I think she was politely telling me that it is none of my business.