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Originally Posted by guy1111
Well, I didn't get up the courage to tell her to stop her behavior, but she asked me yesterday what I would like to see different in our marriage a year from now. I said better communication and overall improvement on our behaviors. She then asked me if I was still interested in couples therapy. I told her I will ask my therapist to make an appointment when we get back. Weird!
She claims that our last therapist said she couldn't help us because we hit a wall. This is not true. Oh boy. Here we go.
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That is progress!
However, I am wondering why you said improvement on
our behaviors, when it's
her behavior. that is problematic for you? Are you afraid to confront her on the issues you have with her anger, her lashing out at you, hitting things, going ballistic, etc etc?
I think it's a huge positive that she wants to go to couples therapy though. That's big.
