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I think if I did this and my H found out about it, he would be very upset and hurt. ...most people do not really understand the issues you are facing. If you really want support, find yourself a good T and use them as your independent ear.

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My parents' and our mutual friend's opinions matter a great deal to me, and if I tell them nothing won't they just get my wife's distorted view of things? Especially so, if our marriage ends in divorce? Do you think I should share anything with them at all?

I forgot to mention something important: we have an adult daughter who is 21 years old. She's actually my stepdaughter, but I've raised her since she was five and consider her my own. She knows some of what's going on, but not a lot, and my plan was to give her the details as well. How much should I tell her?