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Originally Posted by Have Hope
I am very direct when there's a problem I have with someone. I believe in being direct and upfront, because if one tip toes their way around an issue, it never gets fully addressed OR resolved.
The problem is not his behavior. It's hers. Perhaps she does have issues with him, but she does not voice it, or at least it hasn't been openly discussed on here what those issues are.
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I think timing and setting is important. They're on vacation and it sounds like guy111 is trying to maintain the peace, and probably for the sake of his own wellbeing?
I think they've both contributed here. From his end, he mentioned about enabling her (am I wrong?) So I'm inclined to think saying "our" behaviour vs. "your" behaviour was smart on his part. They can then discuss in greater detail, with their therapist, what those behaviours are. Just my opinion, anyway.