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Originally Posted by MsLady
I think timing and location is important. They're on vacation and it sounds like guy111 is trying to maintain the peace, and probably for the sake of his own wellbeing?
I think they've both contributed here. From his end, he mentioned about enabling her (am I wrong?) So I'm inclined to think saying "our" behaviour vs. "your" behaviour was smart on his part. They can then discuss in greater detail, with their therapist, what those behaviours are. Just my opinion, anyway.
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Yes, I would tend to agree with that perspective generally, but in this case, since she went "crazy" in the cab ride
while on vacation already, and her "crazy" came out again, it was a perfect opportunity to say something. Sometimes it almost doesn't matter when or where it happens.... it just has to come out somehow.