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Originally Posted by Have Hope
Yes, I would tend to agree with that perspective generally, but in this case, since she went "crazy" in the cab ride while on vacation already, and her "crazy" came out again, it was a perfect opportunity to say something. Sometimes it almost doesn't matter when or where it happens.... it just has to come out somehow.
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Confronting someone who is being "crazy" is not going to de-escalate a situation nor will it bring about any harmony during their vacation. This is her way of dealing with stress and I believe he recognized that. There's a bit of empathy in him around this, at least from what I can tell.
I'd definitely have a discussion around this trip once they're home and are both at baseline. If traveling is stressful for her, it's best not to add to her plate while she's already feeling out of her element, being away from home, and out of her predictable routine. Timing. IMO