I am sorry you are experiencing this challenge with your mother. Some women have such a had time when they go through menopause. The change in hormones can be hard on the brain like going through withdrawals from a drug addiction.

I suffered from endometriosis and it was like having several uteruses filling me with too many hormones and I did have a hard time with mood swings because of that I had to work hard at consciously being aware of that and doing my best to control it.

Have you read about it so you at least understand that it’s not you and she genuinely is struggling?

Some women have it worse than others. Some even go nuts if it’s not gradual enough.