Yes l have many good friends who have offered and given me help. My kids are grown up guys of 21 and 24, they are handling the situation a lot better than l am. I miss them as they still live at home and l used to see and spend time with them every day. I will see my therapist again nxt week. The only real thing l crave is being able to see beyond this terrible situation l am, in it is crippling me emotionally and mentally. I have known my marriage is over for more than 3 months but l still can't believe it or shake it from my every thought. My wife who decided our marraige is over appears focused and is ready to sell our home and start her new life, whereas lm a bag of broken thoughts and failures.