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Old Jul 16, 2020, 12:11 PM
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Originally Posted by LilyMop View Post
I don’t know why I “forget” how this person will act. I guess I have a tendency to expect people to be nice. I am definitely on board with ignoring people this days. Covid Social distancing helps with that.
Yes, exactly. And why reward someone who is rude with being nice to them? There is no prerequisite that says you must be nice at all costs. So, avoid avoid avoid. I would even go so far as to not make eye contact with this person, if you pass by them. Literally, I would ignore them completely. And if you must interact, keep it brief, professional and polite, but no need to be overly nice and extend any niceties towards them.

And I know what you mean. I keep re-learning the same lesson over and over again and I keep expecting people to be decent.
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Thanks for this!
LilyMop