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Old Jul 16, 2020, 12:41 PM
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Originally Posted by Have Hope View Post
Yes, exactly. And why reward someone who is rude with being nice to them? There is no prerequisite that says you must be nice at all costs. So, avoid avoid avoid. I would even go so far as to not make eye contact with this person, if you pass by them. Literally, I would ignore them completely. And if you must interact, keep it brief, professional and polite, but no need to be overly nice and extend any niceties towards them.

And I know what you mean. I keep re-learning the same lesson over and over again and I keep expecting people to be decent.

I agree. I think avoidance is a good thing. Actions speak louder than words and I think in many cases it’s more diplomatic to stay away versus try to speak up. It’s that boundary issue I keep struggling with.
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