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Originally Posted by LilyMop
I agree. I think avoidance is a good thing. Actions speak louder than words and I think in many cases it’s more diplomatic to stay away versus try to speak up. It’s that boundary issue I keep struggling with.
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Yes...and yes. Sometimes avoidance is the diplomatic approach, and sometimes speaking up is required. It all depends on the context, and the particular individual with whom you are dealing.
I am also learning boundaries at work. I have a thread in the work forum on just that issue. It's very similar to issues you've faced at work.