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Old Jul 16, 2020, 02:08 PM
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Originally Posted by MsLady View Post
He stayed overnight at a friend's house once, when he "broke up with me".. and came back to say, "I AM a good person. I AM caring. You're just insecure and have trust issues you need to work on."

At couple's therapy, the first introduction he gave her was that I have trust issues with EVERYONE.

His dad "jokingly" said I'm "the boss".. and that I'm "sensitive". His mom once mentioned we just need to "compromise".
Yes, so to everyone else, he blames YOU and takes NO responsibility for his bad behaviors.

Maybe he's learning and growing in some ways, but he is in denial of being a "bad boy", he blames YOU to those close to him, he is STILL abusive towards you, and it's gotten worse now.
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