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Originally Posted by MsLady
Ya, that's my fear, that blood will always be thicker than water. Having said that, he has a history against his family, too. He's told them about the financial piece and being a compulsive liar.
I did speak to his mom a while back, regarding another incident about her husband. I did leak out a bit about some of my partner's behaviours related to the incident. We had a great conversation and she, too, said the same. She said I'm family to her and she "knows her boys well". But I don't want to involve her further because she's mom and it'll hurt her most.
I've debated about sending sister an email, and keep it for my own records, but she may just believe otherwise.
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Yeah... just based on my own experience, it's best to stick to your own friends and confidantes when it comes to abuse and trying to explain or convey bad behaviors to their own family members or friends. You have to ask yourself: what is your objective in trying to discuss it with his sister? To protect your own image? To get a family member of his to side with you and see your side of things? What are you trying to achieve?
I would caution against it, personally. Just my opinion. It's not a good idea.