Yep. To clear my name and reputation. She's not just a family member. She's my neighbour and he's intimidated by her. He's the "middle" child and wants so much for his sister and mom (and me) to see "only GOOD" in him. To be PROUD of him. Whatever he's confessed to them has a silver lining attached.

I have opened up to a friend of mine. I lost a lot of friends in the past due to my son's "odd" behaviours and my relationship with my most recent ex (prejudism). I also struggle with social anxiety that stems from childhood trauma. So I'm having to deal with heavy things on my own. It's lonely.

So, being a part of his circle was important for me. He used to say his family thought I was "better" than he. He felt threatened because I AM a good person. I don't think he ever wanted me to get close to them because of his own insecurities, IMO. He competes against me, even over things that have nothing to do with him. So, it's not only about him needing people to "like" him. He needs people to like him "better" then his "rival".. that could be his brother, a specific neighbour, a colleague, and of course, me.

I just want to clear the air.