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Originally Posted by MsLady
This would NOT work. He wouldn't be able to handle it and it would create further toxicity around our girls. Right now, most things are behind the scenes. In the situation you're proposing, he would use the girls to his advantage, making demands that are unfavorable for them, because separation within the home is another form of rejection.
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You said he is a good father. Good parent would never ever use his kids in this manner. He is not a good parent. Good parent will put children first and will make sure that separation is the most peaceful and amicable for the children sake. I don’t think you see your partner for who he really is. You repeatedly describe bad parenting decisions but then say he is a good parent. He is NOT a good parent. Sure there are worse parents out there but it doesn’t make him good. It doesn’t matter if he is a bad parent because he feels rejected or because he mimicked his dad, he just isn’t a good parent