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Originally Posted by MsLady
He is when he's not stuck in his head. In-home seperation will provoke his feelings further. The "splitting" would play itself out. I don't think he'll be capable of managing it well.
If we were to seperat, it would have to happen in a very supportive and delicate way in order to maintain the peace and compromise the schedule.
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You are seriously dancing around this man's reactions. Do you see this in yourself yet? I understand the fears. I do, I really do. But you have got to STOP being so afraid of his reactions.
You are allowing the abuse to continue, and if you do not separate from him, you will continue to be abused, it's going to get far worse over time, he will not improve and you AND your girls will suffer.
Things may not play out as peacefully as you may want, but like I said, you CAN protect your girls.