I blow them off (ignore what they say) & keep on doing my thing.
Way back during my computer engineering career I had a temporary manager who commented that I should wear dresses to work. Lol....I totally blew him off & continued to wear the pants I had always worn in an all guy department. I didn't confront him about what he said....I just ignored it & continued to do what I felt was right. It was rude of him to even bring up HIS OPINION.....but I just held fast to my own opinion & they tend to back down. Some people are just rude & nothing you do will change that....no point in wasting energy trying. Easier to avoid as much as possible & I found growing thick skin with people like that is a benefit. Keeps their rudeness from entering into our being.
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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