I value all of your opinions....thank you...
I have given this a great deal of thought as you can imagine....
and... well... further work with this T won't be happening for me..
for several reasons....
1) he walks around depression by pulling the "alter" card - next appt I will get an alter that isn't depressed... and that is true.. because we... as alters know that our depression is not "acceptable" in his office so we keep alters away that are depressed.. which.. really in the long run doesn't help...
2) he knew I was very depressed that day...plus he knew that I had just been into the doctor.. and my sugar.. was way out of wack.. due to eating too much protien (kectonis) so my brain chemistry was... not well...medically speaking..
3) he knew that I was upset with my MD because I asked for help with my ED - and she left the room and refused to come back after she sent the nurse in for blood work so basically I asked for help.. and was ignored once again
4) he knew I was feeling "sick as a dog" physically that day
5) I am DID... and alters that he has never met before will present themselves... and yes... some of them have been thru horrific times.. so yes.. they may indeed be a bit rude... I am on the extreme end of DID... so... there was an alter present.. that hadn't ever been to the office... and if he is working with a DID patient - perhaps... in his interest and in "my" interest... maybe he should check in and see "who" is actually there... before.. be kicks.. anyone out of the office...like... does this "alter" know the rules.. does this alter even know what therapy is???
and if.. the comment had been "you are full of crap" would have been made with raised voice... it would have taken on a different meaning.. she.. was just stating her opinion...in her way of doing it...
6) he was suggesting... that "I"... as in one of my alters... who was sick physically, felt abandoned by her MD, battling an ED that day.. and was so filled with fibro pain she could hardly walk...
deeply depressed.... that she would feel better if she did volunteer work...
so... well... the truth is.. he was "full of crap"... though the alter... if she was different could have said in the whole midst of that... been very poliet... and said... "T, perhaps that is not such a good thing right now"
Help Me Please............ lol....
Nopper.... dumping the T.... right on his behinder.....
wonder if that is poliet..
wonder how he is going to take.. being dumped... on.. his hinde....
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