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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
I am sorry MsLady in following along you are basically not only parenting two small children but also your children’s father who is very immature and pushes your buttons to mother him instead of being an adult partner.
It sounds like one of your concerns is not only being financially unable to make a break but also concerned about him being mature enough should he get divided custody as well. That’s a lot to think about.
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Well I do question some of his decision making. The other day he had our one year old on a regular swing. I only knew about it because he was showing me cute photos. So I mentioned the swing was not safe for her at that age, even if it's motionless. There's no support and she doesn't understand it yet. He said she was "fine", he was "right there".. when our 3yr old said she fell off it. He said she fell forward while she was trying to get off, which tells me he WASN'T there. I see it as negligence.
Yesterday our 3yr old ran off, as we were leaving the playground. I was helping the 1yr old fet into the stroller. He just stood beside me and watched. I said to go get her. He daid it doesn't work out well when he does.. but that's because he solves the problem by picking her up and she wiggles and screams. So he left it for me to solve the problem. I talked her into coming back, thankfully. She was just being silly during the transition. But he left me to care for both girls while he just stood there. I didn't tell him to physically prompt her.. go work it out!