When does he have all this time to go to parks with kids if he is the only one working? Every time he goes somewhere with kids regardless if you are there or not, he seems to neglect the kids. Why are you letting him be alone with the kids? I understand wanting him to bond with kids but if he is neglectful parent, it’s just too dangerous. Is he your age or very young? My ex husband was 20 when we had our daughter and he was attentive parent and knew that toddlers need to be watched. Your partner doesn’t seem to bother. It’s important for fathers to have relationship with their kids of course but not when their safety is in jeopardy.

Putting a 1 year old on big kids swing and not watch her is neglectful. I don’t think you can foster anything by endangering the kids. That’s what he is doing.

I agree with Tisha that neglect needs to be documented.