Ya, I've never had concerns about their safety. There's been questionable moments, yes, but I'm not in fear that they'll physically be harmed by him.

Yes, our one year old COULD have fallen backwards from the swing and hit her head. A judge may likely say it's a typical scenario of a child falling down in play. It's not like he was swinging her dangerously and she fell because of it .. to me though, it was a risk, anyway.

He was very impulsive growing up. He was forever injured as a kid because he didn't stop and think about his actions.. very much ADHD.. so I can imagine this is all "normal" to him.