I can't think of anything my T wants FROM me, as opposed to FOR me. She cares about me unconditionally and puts no constraints on how I think or feel. Naturally, she would want me to respect her environment and refrain from acting out in ways that harm her, but those things are a given as I'd never do otherwise. Even if I did, she would work with me on understanding why.

I can't even say she wants her specific fee as we have already discussed that when my finances change we will sort something out. She only wants a certain fee because it protects the boundaries of the relationship rather than turning it into something else. While I have therapy with her, some sort of minimal fee is a given.

I agree, it is very freeing to know T doesn't want anything from us. It is a relief because previous T's have imposed very subtle expectations on our work together. T just lets me be me and find my own way.