Eugh it sounds draining. I would be tempted to share random things to see people’s reactions too. Can you ask them why they don’t seem to want to talk about each other’s issues? Maybe they are all thinking the same as you and too afraid to say.

Are they the same people every time? Maybe it’s taking everyone a bit longer to connect over zoom, it might get better. I hope it does, it sounds rubbish at the moment.