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Biba_yu
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Default Jul 19, 2020 at 03:56 PM
 
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Originally Posted by sadp8r View Post
Throughout the this pandemic I've been home more and more by myself ... Each day I feel lonelier and lonelier ....I already have terrible agoraphobia before this pandemic ...
I have very few friends off of PsychCentral....what's worse through this my sister lives across street ....she's been hanging out alot with a friend of hers who has this abusive boyfriend I don't care to be around so I never see my sister anymore
Tho what's been helping me is coming on PC more and chatting with friends and making new friends ....
It does help me .....hang in there ok. And please be safe ....I hope this helped a little. Sometimes it helps just knowing people out there understand .....
I know how it feels. Sometimes I am fine being by myself but sometimes I really need someone to talk to, in real life. I tried some apps but it was not a good experience, I got scared of strangers who wanted to meet right away. It doesn't seem like a good idea to me.
Thank you, you are very nice.

In general, in this age, it's difficult to make friends, and seesaw is right " it's more difficult to make friends when we are older because as children we are a lot more accepting and don't care as much about diverging interests." but it's also that people have less free time. My generation is super busy. They have families, jobs, sometimes two jobs, some moved out far away, and older generations just don't have time. Unless you already have old friends hardly anyone will have strength to start something with you at age when we are all so tired and so in need of our time, free time. That is the difference from youth when you think the whole world is yours and you have so much time.
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