I hear three things going on.
First, the facilitator isn't structuring and motivating the group well.
Second, every group takes on its own personality. It's very possible that the group you're in is simply the victim of a bad fit between members.
Third, online therapy is extremely difficult; I can only imagine how challenging online group therapy would be.
I think it's hilarious that you bring up *whatever* just to stoke the fire. Honestly, I think it's a good idea - if it gets people motivated to participate.
I wonder what would happen if you state the problem you're having with the group right out? You might find that others agree with you.
2 months is a long time for a group not to connect. It might be a dud.
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