Well my initial reaction, without having been in the room, is that the situation didn't seem to warrant asking you to leave.

Is he one of those T's that only likes the positive reactions? Has he never been in that situation before?

Once a long time ago, I raised my voice and said something sarcastic to T (it was over extra sessions/insurance) and he said "almeda, I don't want to be unkind to you".

Stopped me in my tracks...I can't even describe the guilt I felt over that one later on. I sent an apology and then said so at the next session. His response?

I know that what you said is due to what happens in the room and not about me. Why can't your T say the same??