i think i would hate it if my therapist spoke that way. sometimes you will encounter a doctor or someone in a similar position saying something like “so how are we doing today?”. in this sense “we” means “you” so why can’t those who talk that way just say what they mean? i always want to answer “we’re feeling really miserable because you think there is more than one of us here”. nah, i wouldn’t really say that but i do think that kind of talk is silly.