well... for me... being DID.... that doesn't work... my alter said.. "you are full of crap"... in a calm voice... because she meant it...

she should have said "I don't agree"....

but... since she does not know how to talk polietly... my real take on it.. is that he should have waited... until next session... then told me there was an alter there... that said something inappropriate... and set the boundary at the next session.... when other alters were there.. and aware of what the alter said..

that way.... the alters that know.. what the boundaries are... could have let this other one also know... or.. been able to tell the T... that this alter.. needed more time to adjust to therapy...

so... he regrets it... because.. it destroyed.. our working together...