Hey KV:
I think if you were interested in cross-dressing, you probably would have done it by now. I'm not sure I understand what your goal is to "out" yourself (I'm not saying you SHOULDN'T out yourself -- I'm just curious what your goal is). Are you merely looking for social acceptance of your feelings? Do you want anything to change about your life? Are you just tired of keeping your feelings a secret? You don't seem to want anything from anyone; seems like you just want the freedom to tell people how you feel, even if you don't act or dress differently.

So if that's the case, is it really such a big deal? I don't know why your friends and family would blink twice at the news. It just doesn't sound as extreme as you seem to think it is. They might just shrug and say "so?".

But honestly, I would like to hear more about how you feel, because I definitely don't want to blow off something that's important to you!

KV - I'm your bud no matter what, though! I really enjoyed chatting with ya last night and was bummed when you had to leave!

Ian is going to be a-ok!