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Originally Posted by Omers
I think by “contain” he does mean block or stop the behavior but he would not want to make the client feel ashamed. He isn’t suggesting he would just sit there and tolerate or allow it but he would not terminate therapy over it unless it was ongoing. I think the problem is more in my bungled attempt to explain what he means than in him not having boundaries. He certainly isn’t OK with a client doing those things to him.
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My T has also said he wouldn't terminate over the trying to seduce him thing, that it would be something we'd have to talk about, and he'd say it wasn't OK. As for physically threatening him, he's said the only time he's terminated a client is when they physically threatened him, to the point that he called the police. I could never see myself physically threatening him though, as I'm a flight or freeze person.