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Originally Posted by sarahsweets
I am going to be blunt and I mean no offense or judgment. He is abusive emotionally and that can often lead to phyiscally. It doesnt matter if he is documenting anything. Courts rarely give custody of children to the father unless the mother is absolutely unfit which you are not. You should start writing everything down and hide it. What causes the most fear with moms? threatening to take the children away. I guarantee he doesnt want the children but he wants to scare and hurt you. It sounds like you are askng for advice but then rationalize why the advice you get doesnt apply- thats the abuse talking. Making a plan to get away is a must including talking to a lawyer. It doesnt matter if he is as well. You know what you are doing is ok, its him who is causing you doubts.
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Actually they do give kids to fathers full time. I know many families where father got full custody. Many many reasons and not always severe issue like drugs or abuse. Don’t need to be unfit.
Sure nowadays 50/50 is more common but not always. Of course in a situation when children are breastfed it’s a different story but no one breastfeeds forever
But I agree that in this particular situation I doubt they will take kids away from mom