She's 21 now, 20 when she got involved. My daughter is gay and had just got out of a 2 year relationship, the girl decided to be with a guy and broke up with my daughter. I believe she went on a dating app and found this woman. We sent her to Cali to see family for a couple of weeks, she got home sick and asked to come back early. She flew back and never came home, went to this woman and has been with her ever since. If it was a normal healthy loving relationship, it would be ok. The abuse, verbal and physical, the mind control and now she has her working while she stays home, but continues to berate her, control her phone, control her freedom, control her from even taking a shower, it's too much for me to sit back and do nothing. She's on the lease and working to support this woman. Recently she has been visiting my middle daughter who lives not far from her, 2 visits I should say and during those visits she has told her what the situation is and how bad things are, but she won't leave! My daughter has offered to help her on more than one occasion even though this woman has verbally abused her and threatened her too. How do I step in, what can I do to get back to us, it kills me every day knowing she's in this srak place.