Thanks everyone. I guess saying this has happened ''a lot'' of times was an exaggeration. I can understand people ''over reacting'' to a perceived slight on my part. Not that it's something I would do....(''over'' react to someone not getting back to me within a short time span or at all maybe.....some things are triggers..... we do not know everyone's triggers ) But there is no way I can talk to those people now even if I wanted to.

One time someone sent me a message less than one day after the other message they had sent, saying ''I am sorry I bothered you'' and completely blocked me. I was fully intending to get back to ''him''.. Never heard from ''him'' again

I too think that sometimes forgiveness is appropriate and can be a blessing

(not about anyone on pc)

Not ''bad'' paws

much love to all