I didn’t think you were neglecting the kids. I know I’d be so uncomfortable parenting with that kind of stress about who was ‘supposed to be’ watching them discussion.

In what cases are good mothers denied any custody to their kids? I can’t imagine such injustice.

You mentioned you are exchanging texts with him for these conversations. I’m confused as to why.

He admits he has issues of feeling inferior and angry toward women. Do you earn much more money than him? Do you work more hours than him? If divorced, he could get more time for custody and money from you.

I hope you do consult with lawyer and see therapists and his medical doctor too. You’re doing a great job of staying strong.