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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
I didn’t think you were neglecting the kids. I know I’d be so uncomfortable parenting with that kind of stress about who was ‘supposed to be’ watching them discussion.
In what cases are good mothers denied any custody to their kids? I can’t imagine such injustice.
You mentioned you are exchanging texts with him for these conversations. I’m confused as to why.
He admits he has issues of feeling inferior and angry toward women. Do you earn much more money than him? Do you work more hours than him? If divorced, he could get more time for custody and money from you.
I hope you do consult with lawyer and see therapists and his medical doctor too. You’re doing a great job of staying strong.  |
Not about this specific situation, but good fathers are denied custody or even adequate and fair access to the kids all the time and there is no public outrage about this injustice. It’s only in the recent years that family court system started to look at things more fairly.
Agree about seeing a lawyer ASAP. They aren’t married but still need to deal with legal custody aspect and some areas recognize common law union/domestic partnerships as legal unions