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Originally Posted by Have Hope
Have you told him point blank that his threats and accusations are entirely unacceptable behavior? That he cannot be saying these things to you, and in particular, in front of your children? Have you told him that you will not tolerate any further threats from him, splitting behaviors and accusations of abuse in front of your kids and to his family and friends? That if he loves you for real and if he wants things to be happy and stable between you, then he must act and behave with loving behavior at all times?
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Yes, multiple times! Tolerate it? I address these behaviours as they happen, every time. I just can't say, "If you do X, we are done. I have zero tolerance." Why? Because I'm stuck. I'm not naive. I'm well aware what's happening. He's in therapy BECAUSE of what I've addressed.