Getting bullied.

Belittled by my parents and our maid (yes, parents preferred to 'spoil' the maid than me. They called me useless for not helping the housework, but they often let the maid taking a nap when it was the working hours and the job was not done. There are still more cases)

The "caged" feeling. Parents never let me do anything that I want or normal children doing. Now as an adult, I am chasing back that experience that I never had before.