No no.. not at the PARTY. On the night of the incident. I eventually had to leave the room and he took her outside where his dad and sister met him there. He claimed to take her out to help her with "deep breathing". Really, he was extending his show.

She said she told them about the police that night. He said she mentioned about me "pushing dad".

The following day when I had a debrief with her, she started with 2 questions:

1) Why did I push dad
2) Why did I not respect her body boundary

#2 was regarding me holding her in comfort because he was shouting and she was scared. He had her believe I was there to "take her away" so I leaned in to hold her. She cried out for dad! He shouted that I was "not respecting her body boundary".

He later mentioned he was impressed with her use of the terminology "I taught her" (re body boundary).. when really, it was he that screamed it in his room against me.