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Originally Posted by Rohag
Little Turtle, are these current marriage challenges new issues, or are they of long duration?
Asked differently, are these issues more related to age and aging, or are they issues that persist from much earlier in your marriage?
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Good question Rohag, and well put (as always)
I have not been having fun lately. I have been experiencing some challenges in my marriage with Papa bear. These are mostly recent although they were sometimes there to some extent before. Basically, he cannot accept “too much” sensory input. Possible (high functioning) Aspergers? I have discussed this before with a couple of good friends. The “solution” is for me to be much quieter than is healthy for me
The nature of the input is not the issue... he does not accuse me of “whining” or any other negative blaming words that some may like to use towards someone who wants to discuss something. The issue is any input from a human. Lately, the past week or so, I have been feeling worse and I do not have the go to suggestion of “meds” to fall back on
(extreme allergies)
Any kind helpful input or support from any of the bus people is welcome
Love to all on the bus
ETA I request no input re the current “situation” in the world. thank you