As far as the sexual part...
I did lust after one T... They were freaking stunning eye candy... but as far as a life partner... awe h* NO we would be incompatible.
I have had several instances where I wished of having sex with someone (not a T but similar position) because of how differently I believed they would treat me than my past experiences.
And, I have had what I believe was “transference” sexual feelings from one person projected onto another person I honestly didn’t know.

As for current T... I would really enjoy doing a nude photo shoot with him or art... he would be utterly appalled at the idea... but what little I have seen of his body I find artistically attractive. I do not find him sexually attractive and I do not think, with his personality, that he would be able to meet my sexual needs. As a life partner... eh... he would be a better match than my H but the age difference would be a problem between T and I. If we were closer in age we would be a good match as life partners but I believe sex is a human need and I don’t think we would match well there... so still a no go.