It’s nearly impossible to have productive relationship (family relationship or romantic or professional) with people who play “victim” card. People who choose “victimhood” and “poor me” as their life motto never take responsibility, it’s always someone else’s fault, never theirs. Sadly they usually never change. It’s constant up hill battle with them and the only real solution is to keep distance from them if possible.

Having peace and contentment in life makes all the difference. I wonder if you can find peace in other things in life and maybe his antics would not be on a front of your life. I also think going to work next year will make a difference for you. Hope pandemics will be over one day and you’ll be out of the house more and less locked up in close quarters with your partner. Current situation with covid isn’t helping